Odd healing question

[Cabalabob]

I think your response was fine.

If the dd isn't gonna do his job for you why should you do yours for him? When you stopped healing him he asked for heals, your response "if you attack marked target" was justified, do his job you'll do yours.

Just because a DD's job isn't as fatal if he doesn't do it right as if a tank or healer don't do it right does not mean you should encourage him to continue to do it wrong. His job is to attack the marked target, sure he can place DoT's on the surrounding mobs but if he's not primarily focused on the mark he is not doing his job right.