Odd healing question

[spdrDrms]

I think this type of behavior not only promotes a poor gaming environment for everyone but develops poor habits in yourself. All players in a group, regardless of role, need to communicate. No one should be playing the blame game or passive aggressively dealing with things they dislike by refusing to tank/heal/dps until things go your way. If someone in the group refuses to follow, then choose to follow them. Or speak up and discuss the problems you're seeing/experiencing. If things go to hell and the party wipes, talk to your group and identify areas of weakness in yourself and encourage them to do the same thing. By acknowledging your own failings rather than singling others out, you not only strengthen the group dynamic but you'll also improve as a player because you're actively looking for ways to change and get better.

[Qwyxzl]

I think this type of behavior not only promotes a poor gaming environment for everyone but develops poor habits in yourself. All players in a group, regardless of role, need to communicate. No one should be playing the blame game or passive aggressively dealing with things they dislike by refusing to tank/heal/dps until things go your way. If someone in the group refuses to follow, then choose to follow them. Or speak up and discuss the problems you're seeing/experiencing. If things go to hell and the party wipes, talk to your group and identify areas of weakness in yourself and encourage them to do the same thing. By acknowledging your own failings rather than singling others out, you not only strengthen the group dynamic but you'll also improve as a player because you're actively looking for ways to change and get better.

I have to completely disagree with your assesment. The person who was out of line was the lancer. The tank was marking and was asked to follow targets. The lancer was the one with the bad habits and the passive aggressive method of dealing with the situation. The lancer was the one that did not discuss why he was off target. He was the one that was outside the norm. If he had a reason for attacking other targets he should have spoken up. If the tank was choosing the wrong orders then say that. But by being silent and doing his own thing, he was the one that was causing the problems. As both a tank and a healer I am more than happy to let people like him tank the mobs they pull. That is what they are after so that is what I give them.