Odd healing question

[Katchii]

Anyway ... Was it wrong of me to do that? Should I have kept Eos out and healed the Lancer? Or was it completely ok to 'teach the DPS a lesson' in this manner?

No point in trying to heal the user debuff "stupid," you did exactly what I would have done. If they can't follow kill order, you're doing the player base a favor by letting them die.

Refusing to tank or heal for someone is equivalent to a DPS saying they will AFK until they get protect or stoneskin, which is also a plate full of BS.

I agree with your post, it's true.

However, a DPS job is not just to DPS it's to stay alive because a dead DPS does no DPS. If a DPS is actively "trying" to get himself killed he's being a detriment to the party. It's not hard to keep him healed, but allowing him to continue ignoring the kill order set by the tank, the de facto lead in 99% of PuG groups, is enabling him to be detrimental to the party. Again, yes...in those levels it's easy to ignore a lot of things and just power through it...but when a tank is taking the time to set a kill order why wouldn't you follow it when the run would go smoother? Why should the rest of the party have to adapt to someone who obviously has no respect or courtesy for them?