People need to be less concerned with peeing in their neighbor's cheerios and care more about themselves. You don't group with these people what does it matter? If it bothers you get a static of friends and likeminded folks and go HARDCORE ALL NIGHT LONG. MMOs involve playing with other people and dealing with societal issues on your own. Not running to mommy and daddy (SE) all the time when something isn't exactly how you like it.

It was a clever thing people figured out /shrug let them have it as it's not taking gear away from you.. Dwelling on other's actions instead of your own for self-worth is a pretty poor way to go about a cooperative game.