Quote Originally Posted by Jilse View Post
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Some assumptions here that I want to address...

First I am not the FC leader. I don't think I would make a good FC leader. Second, the disconnect isn't really as I stated. It's more like I play with players who play for the same reasons as I do and keep pretty busy. I also lead some learning runs because I like watching fresh groups progress through content, and the number of players who are (rightfully) scared of the community is just amazing to me.

As for carrying people through content, we have more than enough players who can do this, but I definitely agree that it's the wrong way to go about it.

The disconnect I mentioned is more of a... "I'm not sure why you play this game" kind of idea, and while I could ask people individually I think it is a bit rude, so I would rather ask a general population and allow players who might be more comfortable with themselves to volunteer information to me, than pinpointing individuals.