Yeah...I have read all these posts and it truly goes both ways and both sides have valid points. Here is the solution
1. It takes all the fun out of a game if you already know how to do it before you do it so use the Party Finder and make a group of people that want to learn it together (not sure how many takers you will get though).
2. If you don't know a fight and you are joining a team that is requesting the player have experience then that is being dishonest.
people have a right to request experience and get it.
3. If it is Duty Finder ...then you get what you get.