Sounds like you're picking the wrong types of people to play with.


Everyone has different goals in the game. What you need to do is figure out what you want from the game and then join a group of people that wants the same thing you do.

It sounds like you ran with a group that really didn't feel like spending all day wiping on a boss. It also sounds like you are perfectly fine with going through countless unneeded wipes just for the sake of figuring things out. What you need to do is find a group of people who also feel the same way you do which means you have 2 options:

1. You join a cutting edge top of the charts guild who goes in to attempt bosses the day they are released or as soon as they can get to them. This way you fight bosses without guides even existing which means you will get to wipe for hours while figuring stuff out.

2. Join a super casual social guild of people who just want to hang out and don't really care if they accomplish much in the game as long as they're having fun together. This way you will be wiping for hours but you will be doing it with people who don't care if they wipe a lot because you're doing it together so you're having a good time.


I really hope that after reading this post you will stop getting mad at other people for not playing the game the way you want them to play. And realize that everyone is enjoying the game their own way and there is nothing wrong with other people enjoying the game in different ways from you.