I don't really mind running dungeons, they are pretty forgiving even when you have someone that either doesn't know what they are doing yet or is having a (very) bad day. I ran both the 8-man story dungeons without reading a guide with people that never explained what was going on. My main is a whm though, so my job is pretty simple - heal people and don't stand in the fire... I've had my share of DPS that don't target the same enemy as the tank or tanks that forget they have defensive cooldowns - either case makes my life more hectic. Most people if you suggest nicely are happy to adjust what they are doing.

Some people just take games way too seriously. This game is not hard, and with the exception of Titan where lag kills you, the mechanics are rather straightforward. After a few times experiencing the stages of the fight, you pretty much know what to expect. The only people that deserve to claim any type of elite status are the people that created the strategies in the first place. Everyone else is just copying someone else - not hard to do.

Anyway, I'm on Goblin as well. If you ever need someone to heal for you, send a tell to Vin Fyrerun. I'm happy to help you with whatever you need.