Aww Kat - so sorry to hear about your experiences I had an alt on your server and I know you lead a casual/new player helping FC there. I, also, used to have a fear of doing dungeons that I was new to, or instances with all those mean people who would yell/rage if one little mistake was made. After bard, I made a PLD - and now I just tank the best I can and if anyone rages or calls names, I'm out - plus, I almost exclusively run things only with my LS - FC. If you ever want to server transfer, I run a LS and FC on Leviathan called Benevolence. Our whole goal is to help new players and new 50s, and we usually have around 35-40 on every night during US - EST. Good luck to you, though - I feel saddened with this 'community' as far as PF and DF goes -- nothing like FFXI at all, due to the reasons listed above and, I believe, stuff like roulette which caters to solo play :/ Take care of yourself!!