The harder the content gets, the more reluctant I am to throw myself at the general masses, even if I've watched a video or read a guide beforehand. If I'm going to possibly wipe over and over, I want to do it with people who'll give me helpful feedback between rounds on what I could do better instead of just "suck less".

There are jerks on all tiers of the game and I've run into them, but it helps me a lot knowing that after the ordeal's over, I can go back to my FC and be surrounded by friendly AND competent people. I love those people.

That said, we're on the same server! I'm a nice person and pretty good at my job (most of the time), and I wouldn't mind tanking or DPSing something for you. Just send a /tell.