Getting bullied out of your own party sure is fun

[Zaels]

Why has the OF turned into a "someone was mean to me let me post my story so you can all feel bad for me" type of place?

If the bard had a bad attitude you should have left. That's it.

i'll take this over a "dis game sux i hate it and dis is why i refuse to pay for it" type of place anyday

And tbh, even if I was confident I can run those primals without screwing up, I still generally avoid those kinds of parties/people because I don't like their attitude. I think it's understandable to make a mistake every now and then, without pressuring people to play absolutely perfectly. What's not acceptable is making the same mistake several times and as long as people are learning from their mistakes, no big deal.