So, I queued up for a daily 50 dungeon on my SCH, who is 76 gear lvl, and I got a party in progress 0/4 (AK). So, I joined the run and see that they wiped on the first boss and the tank/healer left. So I join in, and a few seconds later a tank joins. I notice the 2 DPS, 1 DRG and 1 BLM, have low HP (BLM at 3000/DRG at 3500). So, I dont say anything, and we start the first boss, and I DPS in cleric as usual until I am forced to heal full time. I notice in the fight, the ads are just piling up, and the boss is barely dropping health. The fight goes on a long time, and hardly any damage is being done.
So the BLM dies because he is standing in the middle of the arena (we are off in the side), and we all wipe, and my parser is showing everyone at like 80 DPS (including tank and dps), so I made the comment "DPS is horrific," and then I asked the BLM why he was standing in the middle of the arena (since we were all on the side), and then after 2 min he doesn't answer. I ask "do you have a keyboard BLM"? and then he says "yes." So I asked "why did you stand in the middle?"
At this point I figure he is a a new player, with fresh 50 gear and probably never been in here. I do not abuse vote kick system and will only kick an offline player or a legit troll.
Someone else initiates a vote-kick for "cheating," on the BLM, I VOTE NO, and he gets kicked from the group. I felt bad since it was obvious he was a new player, and he doesn't really understand why he was kicked since no one said anything directly, so he will have a bad experience and didn't really learn anything why.
I understand that the 2 players who kicked him realized the run would probably not get done with his bad gear/newbie, and they were thinking selfishly by vote kicking (ironically the other DRG was just a low dps as the BLM, he just got lucky i guess).
So, the BLM gets kicked, and we get a replacement BLM with about 4k hp, who knows his stuff, and we clear the rest of the dungeon pretty easy (1 shot Demon Wall, 3 attempts on final boss since DRG didn't understand mechanics or was able to learn).
But this brings up a bigger question, with that initial group, it would have literally been impossible to actually clear that dungeon in the allotted time. While I wouldn't kick anyone in the group, I would eventually have said after a few more tries "hey listen, you guys have too low gear/too new to get clear this dungeon. Either some of you leave to get a good replacement, or I will leave." Simple as that, I wont wasn't 90 minutes banging my head against a wall.
So what is the appropriate thing to do in this situation? also, I think SE has set the 'gear' requirements too low for a lot of content. If you actually to try complete the dungeons as 'bare minimum' gear lvl, it will literally be a miracle unless you have some 4 man premade with all experienced players and perfect teamwork. Try killing Titan Extreme with the "67" gear level SE thinks you need to kill it. Same thing happened earlier in the week on that fight, Titan EX, I DF'd, and we got some bare minimum 3500 HP person who can't even survive the Titan jumps unless you preshield him with a SCH.