I am not trying to be rude but... something every player should do is take and learn the fights, practice makes perfect. This will help in the long but but at the same time players also not be rude to each other. There are party finder practice groups all the time, take advantage of them.

A little initiative goes a long way on all players. Recently my FC has taken step to ensure that players do just that. Was it needed yes, has it helped yes. The only one that can help you is your self, other players can only do so much to help the rest is up to the individual player/s. Do they like it probably not but players should not except other players to carry them thru a fight/s. In the end if those players are carried they are no use to anyone later on, so it is best to learn this stuff now than later.