Currently running this build at 45

Main bar:
Light, Heavy Trammel, Twisting Vice, Moonrise II, Ferocity, Hawk's Eye, Stoneskin, Protect, Shell, Shock Spikes
2nd
Distraction, Collusion, Second Wind, Cure II, Sacrifice, Bloodbath, Rampart, Provoke
3rd
Life Surge, Speed Surge II, Comrade in Arms, Invigorate

Traits:
Fleet of Foot, Pikemanship (only because not 100% sure this does not give some hidden boost to Lancer and it doesn't hurt to have it equipped).

Stats
STR: 166 (yes I know I went over cap )
VIT: 82
DEX:96

My goal is to max STR at 174 and to try and get VIT and DEX to at least 100 If i have points left over then I will put the rest into DEX or MND to get a bigger MP pool