This is why your queue-time is long...

[Ri_ri]

Spamming Flash in FATE's and getting Gold reward for them is much easier than doing actual work in a dungeon and getting ragged at for being bad...this starts a vicious cycle where they don't want to up their game and take responsibility in dungeons, preferring to spam FATE's, then not knowing how to tank when they eventually have to grind for tomes.

Or maybe they got sick of doing the same dungeons over and over. Or don't want to play for the whole 50 minutes of a dungeon. Or want to do other things while they level.

Or maybe they want to avoid arrogant people like you and the OP.