I'm of the belief that being alive is being in a constant learning path. This sunday I went o have some fun on my WAR, queued for Haukke Manor Hm and on my first group I got two fairly well geared BLM, with their relic and all. From past experiences I thought it would be another easy run and I ended not going past the first boss because casters seems to have trouble moving away from aoes.They quit. My next atempt we got a blm with AF mixed with ilvl60 and some lvl 40 jewelry, the other was a Summoner. I commented with my healer over skype that it would be just another painful DF run. How happy I was when they proved me wrong and one shot all boss but the last!

Be consequent with the usage of the kick function. Use it for the right reason, not because the gear from the other players doesn't match your egocentric standards. If they don't know the fight, just tell them the basics. MOST players don't need detailed instructions and you take less than a minute to type down stufsf like "when the boss animate, run away from him" or "interrupt xxx skill, pls". Dont be a d*ck and you might get to know wonderful players that only happen to not have started the game at the same time as you.

If you still wanna be "picky", use the marvelous Party Finder tool! It was, IMO, one of the best features added to this game and, boy, don't do I use it all the time when not playing with FC!