Where to start in End-Game content? (Paladin)

[JonBigwood]

Hi, at first I would do the main story DR, lot of easy philosophy tomes. Also hard DR, or if you don't feel too confident, easy DR until you do. Best not unlock Pharos S at first.
Start the relic quest soon. Do the quest at the same time, acummulating tomes and buying gear. You'll be geared enough when you arrive to Titan.
Unlock CT as soon as you can, it gives many tomes, is easy to do and has good drops. You maybe can skip main story and easy DR then. Depending on the drops, decide the buys and vice versa. You probably might save some DL gear buys. There are HQ gear in the market that may be not expensive and useful (HQ ilvl 55 ring and shield.)
Dailies and quest will take enough time a day. I don't think you need to farm Ifrit and Garuda HM for the weapon as a tank, since once you beat Titan you'll have the relic and you'll have the Company ilvl 55 one to start with. (Be 2nd Lieut ASAP)
King Moogle drops a good weapon if you get tired of trying Titan. But for a tank I think Titan HM is probably easier to play if you have enough gear and HP.