There are few things more pathetic when, after a dungeon is through, someone starts begging for commendations. If you distinguished yourself, you'll get one, maybe. If you beg for them, or tell people to give them to you, or yell at them like a whiney little child (yes, that has happened) or even threaten people for them, you pretty much guarantee that you will never receive one from me. Yeah, that golden magitek armor is pretty cool looking, but good GOD, have some freaking dignity! People are not going to respect you or commend you if you're trying to beg or otherwise weasel a commendation out of them one way or another.