How long before you met your first nasty user?

[vpc]

Had a buddy putting together a Garuda EX farming party today. We were short a healer and one guy said he knew a guy. Said guy joins and we start her up. Well, first Shriek, OT has a brain fart and slips out behind the rock too early and gets downed. No biggy right? I mean, it's just the beginning of the fight. No. Healer just goes off. He says "I was told this was a 100% kill party, don't ever invite me to this again". Follow by other things like "you guys are a joke", blah blah blah. Then he just bails. Literally 2 min into the duty after a simple mistake. I was speechless.

Hahahaha this is hilarious, that was me and too bad you're twisting the story
Donen Done asked if I wanted to go and I told him I wouldn't go unless it was 100% kill/farm cus I had other things to do and he told me yes. That tank died to the very first port and then said he has never done it before..how am I rude for leaving something I didn't sign up for? I only got nasty after that bard started talking crap about me wanting to leave. Maybe you shouldnt lie to people you invite GG

[Narcissus]

Hahahaha this is hilarious, that was me and too bad you're twisting the story
Donen Done asked if I wanted to go and I told him I wouldn't go unless it was 100% kill/farm cus I had other things to do and he told me yes. That tank died to the very first port and then said he has never done it before..how am I rude for leaving something I didn't sign up for? I only got nasty after that bard started talking crap about me wanting to leave. Maybe you shouldnt lie to people you invite GG

So much dwama

[KiriA500]

I'm sure I met one the day the game launched. Luckily though, they're few and far between nowadays. Thank you Player Commendations!

[Versiroth]

I normally tank, and I'm pretty good at keeping aggro/using CDs and making sure I go at the right pace depending on the group. So, I normally only get people that are nice.

However, yesterday, while tanking brayflox longstop for the first time, I had a summoner who kept complaining and whining because I skipped a chest off in a nook some where. Then I said, "Oh, again (because I said it at the beginning), I don't really know this place". And he replied "Then how about you follow the people who DO know, instead of just running all over the place?". I responded "Na, you're a D***, so I'll just go where ever".

And then later on, the healer asked me if we could go into a side area that drops a ring and I told the group "Oh course. I don't mind doing whatever, I just didn't appreciate the way the summoner was presenting his case".

Basic decency goes a long way while asking the person "leading" the group to go some where extra. I'm always very cordial to all my groups and I never mind doing anything to make the run better for all. Heck, I'm that tank that waits at the bosses door in Prae until everyone is inside. But, I do expect to receive the same kind of respect. A simple, "Can we get the chest over here?" would have been enough to make me head your direction. Saying stuff like, "You're skipping loot AGAIN." is not the best way to get me to cooperate.

Also, this same guy kept attacking whatever he wanted instead of going in order (I always mark on low level stuff). So, if there were three mobs, the unmarked one would always rush him after a bit even though I'd use Flash a couple times. Some people just don't know how to act when in a group with other humans.

[kanjitai]

The other day I meet a nasty player on Hyperion. I so wish I could post their name here because what they did was over the top. To sum it up they told someone in a yell to get their Dad's shotgun and kill themselves.

[gadenp]

The other day I meet a nasty player on Hyperion. I so wish I could post their name here because what they did was over the top. To sum it up they told someone in a yell to get their Dad's shotgun and kill themselves.

In real life I used to love tormenting such people. It pisses me off that they get off bullying other people. Usually they have issues on their own, which cause them to react that way.

But in all seriousness, I find people that must troll others, must insult others and must prove they are better, especially on the internet, themselves have major issues in their real life. They are so troubled in real life and pitiful that they have to come online and act it up to get some means of self-worth.

When we meet such people, we must actually must pity them, that the only way they can feel good about themselves is to try to push others down. It is actually a pretty sad thing.

Instead of getting angry with them. We must instead show them love, teach them better and pity their meaningless existence. We should show them, through our actions and our words how much we care, are concerned and feel sad for them. Ever thing they say, we must meet back with love, understanding and sadness in our hearts for their station, situation, problems and issues in their lives that cause them to be like this.

No matter what they do or say. Continue to re-enforce kind understanding, patience and pure concerned pity and sad resonating sympathy towards them.










It is further sad that our concern for them actually drives them crazy. People that bully usually have no internal self worth and hate pity. But we must still do so, our light must shine to every part of their darken soul and bring them back to the light! It is a scared duty, regardless of how they feel. We must be tireless in our efforts, even if they expire from our effort.

[NoctisCaelus]

It took me a few days to reach 50, and 50 was when I met speed runners for the CM runs.. Saying that I'm rude/mean/terrible for watching cutscenes. :/

[Shadowtrek]

I've been lucky to have only had 2 bad ones so far. One was a very high lvl player and I guess because of that she felt the need to treat everyone else in the party (two of which were new) like we were all newbies. When I finally commented about her behavior, she responded really rudely, trying to start an argument. I just kinda laughed it off and didn't make a big deal of it to save face, but it did get on my nerves.

The other was when a friend and I joined a party with 2 people who were also friends. For some reason, the healer would only heal her friend and not me or mine. After dying for the 3rd time, I asked why and she said she was only there to "help a friend get some gear, not to make friends". It made no sense! We chalked it up to maybe trolling and luckily never ran into them again.

Other than that, it's been a mostly pleasant experience. I'm sure there are other instances that could be considered nasty, but those are the only two that really stuck out as rude and nasty.

[GourmetGarin]

Just when I hit level 50 I met them everywhere. The first was on Castrum.

[Zfz]

I started playing in July (beta phase 2), then played through early access as well.

First nasty player I got was probably early this month when I was helping out with Titan HM. He (damage dealer) joined our party, went all out on the boss the moment the barrier was down and then left us with "come ask me again when you got BC cleared" or something like that. If I remember correctly, it was a full local server party, mostly our FC buddies with a few outsiders.

It turned out that the player was already a well known jerk/troll.

Other than that, I've had my shares of instant-quitters and so on, but I don't think I've had any that looked down on people and used aggressive/abusive words. In-game, that is. On the forum...well...it's the opposite I think. :3

Just to add: I did most of my content with FC people, so that may be why.