How long before you met your first nasty user?

[Versiroth]

I normally tank, and I'm pretty good at keeping aggro/using CDs and making sure I go at the right pace depending on the group. So, I normally only get people that are nice.

However, yesterday, while tanking brayflox longstop for the first time, I had a summoner who kept complaining and whining because I skipped a chest off in a nook some where. Then I said, "Oh, again (because I said it at the beginning), I don't really know this place". And he replied "Then how about you follow the people who DO know, instead of just running all over the place?". I responded "Na, you're a D***, so I'll just go where ever".

And then later on, the healer asked me if we could go into a side area that drops a ring and I told the group "Oh course. I don't mind doing whatever, I just didn't appreciate the way the summoner was presenting his case".

Basic decency goes a long way while asking the person "leading" the group to go some where extra. I'm always very cordial to all my groups and I never mind doing anything to make the run better for all. Heck, I'm that tank that waits at the bosses door in Prae until everyone is inside. But, I do expect to receive the same kind of respect. A simple, "Can we get the chest over here?" would have been enough to make me head your direction. Saying stuff like, "You're skipping loot AGAIN." is not the best way to get me to cooperate.

Also, this same guy kept attacking whatever he wanted instead of going in order (I always mark on low level stuff). So, if there were three mobs, the unmarked one would always rush him after a bit even though I'd use Flash a couple times. Some people just don't know how to act when in a group with other humans.