The lag you guys are seing is not the fault of SE but rather the way that Verizon routs the packets from your PC to the SE data centers. They chose the shortest path which most of the time during peek hours get very congested causing the lag spikes you all are seeing.

The best solution is to get some kind of a VPN router so that your packets are instead sent through a different path (slightly longer but less congested) something like pingzapper or wtfast would work. Both services have trial periouds. I would seriously give them a try untill verizon decides to fix their packet routing problem. Also if you plan to do Titan extreme during peak hours those VPN routing services are a must for verizon users.