Well I'm sort of with the OP on this, maybe I'm old fashioned but I think if someone got to a spawn first then leave them to it and come back later or try a different camp, there are 4 decent fleece camps, with decent gear you can farm 2 at once if it's quiet. Competing over one of the spawns just slows both players down IMO, I can be more constructive with my time than fighting with someone over 5 sheep that take 30 seconds to kill.