I don't even care about being able to get commendations in solo play. My problem is that I usually queue with my wife and we play with some amazing, patience, nice, talented players and we want to be able to give some commendation. It feels so selfish to get to the end of a run with one of these people and not be able to reward them only to find out we got commended.

I understand why I can't commend someone I queue with, but I'd like to be able to commend others that deserve it rather than feeling like I'm punishing them because I choose to play with my wife or friends.