If every group you join, you claim that everyone without full DL/Allagan and Zenith are undergeared for Garuda HM, I have just one simple question for you:
How did you do it, then?
Oh that's right. It's not that a gear level between 60-70 is too low. It's that since you've gained enough gear to become complacent about how you play, you've decided that it is beneath you to actually have a challenge like the first people who went through Garuda (HM).
I started playing when ARR went to beta 3. I stopped for 2 months, came back, and found that the entire endgame is comprised of people waiting to play and people who are saying those who are waiting to play are too gimped to play. To top off this obvious incorrect assumption, most of the elitists are complaining that the game is too easy.
I understand NCLB left many USA kids in need of serious critical thinking skills, but this one should be a no brainer: Help those who are looking for a leg up if you need a challenge. I'm not being a hippy about this; I'm killing two birds with one stone (hippies don't kill birds, except with their music).
Don't get me wrong, I heal just fine in groups and other than a few gear checks, my skill more than makes up for lack of stats. And I understand the DPS checks in something like Titan. But when I can't even get a group together, because people are too concerned that the game will actually require a strategy other than "just burn it down", I feel ashamed for the ffxiv community.
And I'm sure there are plenty of threads just like this one. My point of posting a new one is that the subject has become worse over the last few months.