How Can I Make my Fairy act like it USED to? :-(

[Forever_Learning]

Target an enemy with Obey. Sadly this is the only thing I have found that brings it back to being close to the way it was before 2.1.

But then I need to still

-tell it to follow me
-tell it to cast embrace

Somehow, it used to be smart enough to do those things on its own

Frankly, if I have to micro-manage everything my pet does, then why even have a pet?

It just feels like some extra spells I have that technically only work when this fairy has been summoned.

It feels much less like a team effort between me and Eos now