Who do I give it to? Almost never melee dps. Why? Monks attacking from the side and dragoons from the back. You get nothing from me if you are so afraid to pull aggro that you cut your dps in half. Even when healing I'd rather the dps be attacking (the right target) at full strength and pulling aggro from the tank rather than half assing their job. On that note if the melee dps are actually doing their jobs I'll give to them, if not then the healer unless the tank did a spectacular job at something.

(double post due to a weird 1000 character limit error)