I made a set of macros for dps'ing while my fairy holds down the fort on the tank. By using focus target on the tank, I can target as normal for dps and use <f> to direct embrace into the tank. Looks like this

/pac "Embrace" <f>
/ac "Bio II" <t>

And repeated for every dot and ruin. Keeps the tank topped, and if they aren't taking damage, I switch hotbars so I'm not using the macros and generating overheals. It allows me to stay in cleric stance almost 100% of the time outside of boss fights, and even in average bosses, it's usually sufficient