Do not misunderstand, I am not trying to say that people hate the whole game, or to just quit, I am only saying that if one small thing like a raid you can only do once a week causes you such a problem, maybe this one just is not for you.

You don't need to be able to spam coil to help out your FC, you can split up experienced groups and have them go along with newer players, utilize in game or voice chats to help give pointers, etc. I also don't understand why people think you cannot play your other jobs you have leveled, you can be something different on all 5 turns if you want, you can play as any job you have for quests or anything else in the game. Yes, they say you can play every job, that doesn't mean you are going to be able to get maxed out best gear for all of them instantly. In MMOs you normally choose a job you are best at, and other things come later.