I would also like to see it so that when you are in combat, unless you are casting a friend spell, you can only click enemies for targeting (per perhaps have it so when you hold a modifier key it does that)

Presently, it feels like trying to click anywhere but the outer edges of my screen more often than not targets ME. I may be clicking right on a monster or NPC right next to me, and it always seems to think I meant myself σ_σ