God, I've ran healer for too many parties where I'd wind up stealing hate from the tank. Or watched DDs steal hate from the tank. It's not a matter of what you learn from Fates, it's what you learn from having the shyte hit the fan. Fates don't last near as long to allow you to learn this. This is why I say we need a crucible liken to XI's Valkurm Dunes. When you were level 14 it was either Valkurm or spend the next few weeks soloing. If you couldn't learn your role in Valkurm your party wasn't going to be doing much of anything beyond respawning or running for their life to Selbina.

The problem is more than just people not learning, though. It's ingrained. I've had arguments with people who think the hate mitigation actions are all you need to control hate... complete BS but this is what people really think. That you can just spam all day long and make everything alright by just hitting Quelling Shots when the cooldown is up. Haven't had much talk with tanks about hate management, but if the DDs think like this then they clearly have their work cut out or them.