TBH this game is super casual friendly.
I'm 35+ married 2 children full time job and playing 3 hrs a day (even counting days i coudn't play when i was at the movies or those mini-maint, square likes to do)
I have 2 50 jobs with relic+1 and full DL gear (even accesories) and blacksmith at 50. and some gathering
And i haven't played in almost 3 weeks (didn't resub)
I honestly can't seem to imagine how the OP is not lv 50 by know

Serious question what content that i didn't do you have done that takes to much time to do?