I played a main tank in EQ2 for several years and I really think what would help a lot of dps / tank problems would be to allow players to simply target the person tanking and be able to cast your hostile spells through that person to the target. This would make healers lives a lot easier too so they wouldn't have to switch targets to dps and then switch back to heal the tank and a lot of games use this I was shocked when I jumped on my conjy to lv it to 15 for the pally quest to find that u couldn't fire your hostile spells through the tank... cmon this is basic mmo logic here lol!