Hi - fairly new tank here. I have a bard @50 relic, but I enjoy tanking ever since being a NIN in FFXI. Here, however, mobs come in packs of 3 instead of 1, and also aggro is harder to hold. I usually don't have issues holding hate, but on almost every WP I have tried, I get placed with dps with relic/+1 who want to speed run the dungeon, even though I'm only outfitted with i55 WP gear and Ifrit's sword. Is this going to be the trend in all DF groups?

It is to the point that I don't even queue up for WP unless it is with my LS or FC, since they let me take the time I need to mark and/or set my own pace that I'm comfortable with tanking. Sure, it is slower - but I think it is better than us all wiping b/c I can't handle pulling 3-4 groups at once with no DL gear on at all...Thoughts?