On my server, people are shouting for PUG Coil groups all the time in Wineport, Revenant's Toll, and even randomly in Dragonhead and in the cities. There's tons of people out there looking for Coil groups. Go find some people and round them up and go in the Coil.

All I'm seeing here is you being too beta to get out there and make the friends and party you want to challenge the content you want to do.