Apart from crying and not trying to find a solution, why not try this


Join Pug that does Coil and make friends.

No, Pugs can fail but it doesn't mean all 8 players sucks, and if you don't suck or shows you are willing to learn, you are likely to make friends who don't suck, they you keep forming your own friend list until you have a pretty solid static

Also do read some guides / video before you start donig coil in PUG, that will help

Or join an FC who is needing members.