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[panicmotion]

I normally play on the PC. I downloaded ff14 on the ps3 so my wife can play. She didn't set up her account yet so I decided to log in with mine. It got stuck to my account but I read somewhere that gamesharing is available on the PS3. So I made a new user for her on my PS3 and tried to fire up ff14. It's saying it can't launch the game and that I'll need to enter the PSN code I got when I purchased the game, and that a re-download will not be necessary. I never received a PSN code. I've looked at all of my transactions and it's nowhere to be found. Where is this?

I've set up a new square enix account for her and everything and I'm willing to pay them another monthly fee. I would prefer to pay for the advanced subscription where I can have multiple characters on one server but nowhere have I found that they both can be logged in at the same time...one on the pc and one on the ps3.

Googling has gotten me nowhere...

EDIT: I've resorted to completely deleting the game and redownloading it. I hope this works. Although at some point I'd like to be able to log in to both of our accounts on the same ps3.