Objectively if you want to do things together you may need to try other jobs. Most end game group comp only requires 1 Melee DPS. The War Council is a friendly FC that is always growing. We're currently working on a 5th coil group.

My name is Ginzo Kazama. Feel free to check out our website if you might be interested or contact in game. http://twc-ffxiv.enjin.com/home