... im stuck on Howling Eye and Aurum Vale for a month now ?

i got to a point where im not sure if this is the right game for me , up until those above dutys i had lots of fun and was enjoying the game . but i cant beat them which makes me unable to proceed in story and grand company questlines

im currently levelling other jobs but soon im at the point with each job where i have to beat them to proceed

i dont wanna quit as i got like 4 months of sub but its getting very frustrating to advance , i imagine the next dungeons will be even harder.

Did you have problems beatin them too , or is it just me that sucks too much ?