Is this normal?

[Delsus]

I don't see the point of lying though i would rather people told me if they need help/advice with a dungeon or if they new to it.

The point of lying is there are loads of people who will leave a group as soon as they know there is someone new in the group. Yes it shouldn't be like this, what should be happening is people who queue for DF shouldn't care who they get but we need to adapt (if no one says anything then just don't mention a lack of exp.)