I think the game is fun. And I know what a crap rushed game looks like. I highly suggest looking up Two worlds (one). Just be glad it isn't THAT BAD.
Most people forgot or ignored the letter of appology or misinturprated it, or simply didn't believe it. Alpha and beta was too buggy and unstable to ad much to the game at release. And no one liked what was already in game after release.

But seriously, if you do not enjoy the game you never will. No matter how they fix it, you will always have some grievence. Or simply go "its been x months and just now fixed it... lame."

Honestly look at it from the developers point of view, there taking 3-5 years worth of developement and redoing it by the end of summer. And even still once they fix what they need. Everything will be ongoing, content, tweaks fixes etc. They are not fixing it then stoping. Which is what a few people sound like. Truth be told I seen a few mmo in worst shape then ffxiv.