Healer.. How do you target in Fates?

[Estellios]

You should be able to click on them if you are using KB/Mouse, though there might be a config option you need to mess with or a key you have to hold down. I haven't used kb/m since early in beta so I am not too informed on it.

If you are using a gamepad you can put away your weapon by clicking the left stick which will put you back into "all" targeting. You can also use target-of-target macros ( /target <tt> ) and target the enemy then hit the macro to target whoever they are attacking. Another thing you can do is go into your character config, disable the auto filter (the one that changes when the weapon is drawn/sheathed) , and enable the manual filters. By hitting L1 + a button, you can swap the filters which change what you scroll through with left and right on the D-pad.

As far as healing people kiting, I would just say "please stop moving" and if they keep kiting just accept it and let them die. It is not worth the frustration as it is a nightmare healing someone that is running around, and barring very few circumstances it is a terrible thing to encourage, speaking as someone that has played both a healer and tank.