Ok so here is something I wanted to throw out there hold on a sec let me put on my flame retardant suit...ok. So the debate WHM DPS vs WHM no DPS is CLEARLY a sore spot and regardless of anyone's opinion. However what about the reverse DPS helping to heal?

In FFXI it was common for BLM, RDM, SMN to heal in the pt, obviously not primarily but on occassion as support for the healer when things were extra scary or tight. I have noticed that in FFXIV so, so many times the DPS refuse to heal under any situation except themselves being hurt. If a WHM should DPS should not then a BLM help heal in a situation where it is warrented. I play this with my wife (Aphrini is a girl clearly the player is a guy ) and as a blm she always heals when things get crazy i.e. a huge hit to the tank or major AOE to the pt, this helps stabalize the fight and because she has endless mp it helps reserve my mp pool. Is this not ok in FFXIV or taboo?