I keep making a character and deleting the character, switching between servers and races and starter class. I just can't ever seem to be able to choose one thing or place. I'd like to find a server with a decent population, maybe a fun social linkshell that can help me out learning some crafting.

In ff11 I play a red mage almost exclusively because I loved the buff/debuff support role thing, so I'm thinking a Thaumaturge... but I also want to be able to make food and potions (again with that support mentality in mind)

Where is a good place to head out too?