Ofc I have been blamed of screwing it up. But that was not even 10% of the times I actually screwed it. Most of the times it was a wrong decision whom to save and who not to. And it´s ok if the one who died and was more important is annoyed.

But I guess ist about those cases ppl just flame first to not get target of flames. Just answer them "Contributers first." They´ll ragequit and you are better off.