I have never been the blame of healing "directly". I have pointed out my own flaws (maybe that has detracted the others from saying something) but, generally I am not to blame. I have Purposely not healed before though.. where I sleep adds (yes, On whm I do USE my ability to use water > Sleep on adds if applicable) and they keep waking them up. well, have fun buddy because I won't be curing you anymore till you die or kill it.

As to what Crystalfire808 said, Healing is tough. Then again so is Tanking. You got to look at it from everyone's PoV as no one really has it "easy". Just do the best you can with what you got and I am sure that you will get better, as I told someone else who was asking about coil : "turn 1 - 3 is basically AK / DL gear + mechanics checks. If you think you are don't need to improve, you are wrong. Always think see that there is a way to improve something in your rotation, whether it is healing or DPS or Tanking.