It is your Fault!

[Eclair_Xysha]

The thing is, some people rely too much on the healer to the point where even we have to dps to get through a boss or so while healing might I add. It's like they rely on healers so much they just be like, I want to do my own thing. What ever. If I die it's the healers fault. A party is supposed to be team work. If some one who isn't tank pulled agro there are many factors as to why it happened depending who it goes to. And if the mob is way too much, like I know there are tanks out there that just keeps pulling non stop with out killing the first mob first... if it's way too much for your mama pool to handle speak up. If there's a bard, ask for mp regen.

The thing that bugs me the most is when people say, "There's not enough heals!" When both healers in the party, our mana pools are just almost and if not completely empty trying to keep everyone alive. If you are going ALL out on healing and controlling your hate points then... either dps suck at controlling agro, the tank has a hard time controlling agro, might be under geared, dps is taking too long to DD, no one is grabbing adds, or they just can't dodge.