Awwww, don't go overboard. I'm not gay, but what I've come to understand is that FFXIV is a safe place for a lot of younger gay players to cut loose and be themselves for a few hours a day, in a manner that would get them harassed or beaten up in their real community. Those flamboyant twinks in their battle bikini briefs are just as likely to be closeted young gentlemen of the south simply relishing an opportunity to be out and proud before having to go back to their bitter brimstone bible thumping meatspace. I can't speak for other countries, but in the states, where you live plays a huge part in how safe someone can be just being themself. Certain parts of our nation are nuts.