It seems like an issue to agree to disagree on, no? Not everything translates well through text, after all. Which is precisely why people should not leap to bold conclusions and assume that anything resembling critique is meant as a deeply personal attack.

Though as mentioned earlier, such things seem to go hand in hand with a considerable portion of FFXIV's community. To the extent that simply telling a player to be cautious of a particularly mechanic they persistently die to is considered to be one of the worst things they have ever experienced.