You're not the only one. Im taking my time too. I dont play everyday because I like to take breaks and also I work . I just got my Lancer to level 30 and Im about to be a Dragoon soon. I JUST got a chocobo, JUST joined a Grand Company and story-wise Im not rushing through at all. I dont get how people get to endgame so fast when the game hasnt even been out long.