It all depends on ones real life situation; if someone has a real life with lots of activity and friends/family they enjoy, then yes, MMOs and any video game for that matter will seem pointless and a waste of time, but if you have an introverts frame of mind or a situation arises where you are unable to get out, then games do help you pass the time. Forgive the anecdote, but when I was in the hospital, even the home shopping network was entertaining to watch. lol Being disabled now and stuck at home, I game on a few different MMOs during the day and sometimes night. But unfortunately going solo can only be a comforting diversion for so long, without the social aspect in online gaming, it can loose it's charm fairly quick, this is why I tend to game hop a few times a day, I've found no real group in any MMO to really team with and socialize, so yes, even FFXIV with all it's splendor and beauty can feel boring at times.